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		By: Playin&#8217; the Field &#124; Lolabees		</title>
		<link>https://www.lolabeescareercoaching.com/its-not-you-its-me/#comment-2837</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Playin&#8217; the Field &#124; Lolabees]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Sep 2013 19:41:58 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[&#8230;] often used the analogy that my career in dentistry was like being in a relationship.  At times you could say it was slightly abusive, and at times it was very supportive and [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] often used the analogy that my career in dentistry was like being in a relationship.  At times you could say it was slightly abusive, and at times it was very supportive and [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: 10 Helpful Steps to Creating Change &#124; Lolabees		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[10 Helpful Steps to Creating Change &#124; Lolabees]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Mar 2013 23:49:01 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[...] Do some soul-searching.  Before you give up, can you try to solve the problems you have?  I asked myself this many times.  First it was, &#8220;Is it the job or the career?&#8221;  Once I sorted that one out, the question became, &#8220;Is it me or the career?  Will my problems follow me around regardless of what I choose to do for my daily work?&#8221;  If you conclude that it&#8217;s something about your personality that will always cause your relationship with work to fail, try to resolve it.  For example, if your need to be a perfectionist becomes too overwhelming, work on giving yourself the freedom to not be perfect.  (I think the help of a coach or therapist comes in here.)  If you&#8217;ve successfully cured yourself of this trait (or even if you haven&#8217;t,) and the job still makes you miserable, accept who you are and the fact that it might be the wrong career for you. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] Do some soul-searching.  Before you give up, can you try to solve the problems you have?  I asked myself this many times.  First it was, &#8220;Is it the job or the career?&#8221;  Once I sorted that one out, the question became, &#8220;Is it me or the career?  Will my problems follow me around regardless of what I choose to do for my daily work?&#8221;  If you conclude that it&#8217;s something about your personality that will always cause your relationship with work to fail, try to resolve it.  For example, if your need to be a perfectionist becomes too overwhelming, work on giving yourself the freedom to not be perfect.  (I think the help of a coach or therapist comes in here.)  If you&#8217;ve successfully cured yourself of this trait (or even if you haven&#8217;t,) and the job still makes you miserable, accept who you are and the fact that it might be the wrong career for you. [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: 7 Myths New Dentists Fall For (And How To Tackle Them)		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[7 Myths New Dentists Fall For (And How To Tackle Them)]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Jan 2013 03:15:32 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[...] your choice of place of work, if you should even own a practice or&#8211;gasp, but true&#8211;even be a dentist. Don&#8217;t lose hope, as this can happen in any career. Life is always ready to throw challenges [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] your choice of place of work, if you should even own a practice or&#8211;gasp, but true&#8211;even be a dentist. Don&#8217;t lose hope, as this can happen in any career. Life is always ready to throw challenges [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: lolabees		</title>
		<link>https://www.lolabeescareercoaching.com/its-not-you-its-me/#comment-2834</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[lolabees]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Nov 2012 20:07:18 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.lolabeescareercoaching.com/its-not-you-its-me/#comment-2833&quot;&gt;Dwight M.&lt;/a&gt;.

Congrats to you, Dwight.  I bet you&#039;ll see that the lifestyle change will be worth it.  It&#039;s been crazy to find out about how many more dentists are in your situation than we know.  I guess its no surprise.  Woohoo, you made it!  What ever will you do with all your new free time??]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.lolabeescareercoaching.com/its-not-you-its-me/#comment-2833">Dwight M.</a>.</p>
<p>Congrats to you, Dwight.  I bet you&#8217;ll see that the lifestyle change will be worth it.  It&#8217;s been crazy to find out about how many more dentists are in your situation than we know.  I guess its no surprise.  Woohoo, you made it!  What ever will you do with all your new free time??</p>
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		By: Dwight M.		</title>
		<link>https://www.lolabeescareercoaching.com/its-not-you-its-me/#comment-2833</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Dwight M.]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Nov 2012 18:01:53 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I know your pain!!! I&#039;ve been a dentist for almost 30 years and hated it. I had a family so I had to suck it up. I am now nearing a chance to get out and I can&#039;t wait. My lifestyle will suffer, but
I&#039;ll enjoy less so much more. Thanks for your candor!!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I know your pain!!! I&#8217;ve been a dentist for almost 30 years and hated it. I had a family so I had to suck it up. I am now nearing a chance to get out and I can&#8217;t wait. My lifestyle will suffer, but<br />
I&#8217;ll enjoy less so much more. Thanks for your candor!!</p>
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		By: lolabees		</title>
		<link>https://www.lolabeescareercoaching.com/its-not-you-its-me/#comment-2832</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[lolabees]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Sep 2012 02:48:27 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.lolabeescareercoaching.com/its-not-you-its-me/#comment-2831&quot;&gt;saintjohnmasterscrossfit&lt;/a&gt;.

Cool, thanks!  Checking it out right now :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.lolabeescareercoaching.com/its-not-you-its-me/#comment-2831">saintjohnmasterscrossfit</a>.</p>
<p>Cool, thanks!  Checking it out right now 🙂</p>
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		By: saintjohnmasterscrossfit		</title>
		<link>https://www.lolabeescareercoaching.com/its-not-you-its-me/#comment-2831</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[saintjohnmasterscrossfit]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Sep 2012 02:26:19 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.lolabeescareercoaching.com/its-not-you-its-me/#comment-2830&quot;&gt;lolabees&lt;/a&gt;.

Here is the link I mentioned:
http://www.texasgrassfedbeef.com/index.htm]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.lolabeescareercoaching.com/its-not-you-its-me/#comment-2830">lolabees</a>.</p>
<p>Here is the link I mentioned:<br />
<a href="http://www.texasgrassfedbeef.com/index.htm" rel="nofollow ugc">http://www.texasgrassfedbeef.com/index.htm</a></p>
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		By: lolabees		</title>
		<link>https://www.lolabeescareercoaching.com/its-not-you-its-me/#comment-2830</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[lolabees]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Sep 2012 16:35:33 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.lolabeescareercoaching.com/its-not-you-its-me/#comment-2829&quot;&gt;saintjohnmasterscrossfit&lt;/a&gt;.

I must admit, I get a lot of my info the easy/lazy way-- I ask my brainy husband.  The link sounds great.  Thanks!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.lolabeescareercoaching.com/its-not-you-its-me/#comment-2829">saintjohnmasterscrossfit</a>.</p>
<p>I must admit, I get a lot of my info the easy/lazy way&#8211; I ask my brainy husband.  The link sounds great.  Thanks!</p>
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		By: saintjohnmasterscrossfit		</title>
		<link>https://www.lolabeescareercoaching.com/its-not-you-its-me/#comment-2829</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[saintjohnmasterscrossfit]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Sep 2012 00:42:06 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.lolabeescareercoaching.com/its-not-you-its-me/#comment-2828&quot;&gt;lolabees&lt;/a&gt;.

Yes, I have the book by Cordian as well couple of other paleo cookbooks. I even found an article from a cattle farmer in Texas advocating the Natural Diet/Cave man/Paleo diet providing an argument against all the modified grains that his animals used to eat and how they were unhealthy until he changed the cattle&#039;s diet. I send it to you. I have it in my favourites list on my computer at work.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.lolabeescareercoaching.com/its-not-you-its-me/#comment-2828">lolabees</a>.</p>
<p>Yes, I have the book by Cordian as well couple of other paleo cookbooks. I even found an article from a cattle farmer in Texas advocating the Natural Diet/Cave man/Paleo diet providing an argument against all the modified grains that his animals used to eat and how they were unhealthy until he changed the cattle&#8217;s diet. I send it to you. I have it in my favourites list on my computer at work.</p>
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		By: lolabees		</title>
		<link>https://www.lolabeescareercoaching.com/its-not-you-its-me/#comment-2828</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[lolabees]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Sep 2012 00:25:47 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.lolabeescareercoaching.com/its-not-you-its-me/#comment-2827&quot;&gt;saintjohnmasterscrossfit&lt;/a&gt;.

I read this comment a while back and forgot to respond!  Oops!  I&#039;ve heard of the book, but I don&#039;t know much about it. Have you read the Paleo Diet created by Loren Cordain?  I&#039;m guessing they make similar arguments.  I think many people are reactive to gluten/wheat-- maybe more than not.  I know I avoid those things because of sensitivities, and overall, I do much better.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.lolabeescareercoaching.com/its-not-you-its-me/#comment-2827">saintjohnmasterscrossfit</a>.</p>
<p>I read this comment a while back and forgot to respond!  Oops!  I&#8217;ve heard of the book, but I don&#8217;t know much about it. Have you read the Paleo Diet created by Loren Cordain?  I&#8217;m guessing they make similar arguments.  I think many people are reactive to gluten/wheat&#8211; maybe more than not.  I know I avoid those things because of sensitivities, and overall, I do much better.</p>
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