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		By: fragglerocking		</title>
		<link>https://www.lolabeescareercoaching.com/a-confession-why-helping-others-seemed-like-a-load-of-bull/#comment-4457</link>

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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Jun 2017 22:46:30 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.lolabeescareercoaching.com/a-confession-why-helping-others-seemed-like-a-load-of-bull/#comment-4454&quot;&gt;lolabees&lt;/a&gt;.

Yes indeed, my hearing impaired patients wanted a miracle I couldn&#039;t provide, only improvement, it&#039;s hard managing people&#039;s expectations especially when they are paying quite a lot of money to get help. NHS patients don&#039;t expect miracles of course, but also don&#039;t like the results, so no, they were rarely thrilled. My boss however, manages her clients beautifully and they are all thrilled with what she sells them, so the other part of it is that I wasn&#039;t very good at it!! I&#039;m great at wax removal ? let me know if you want any more photos ??]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.lolabeescareercoaching.com/a-confession-why-helping-others-seemed-like-a-load-of-bull/#comment-4454">lolabees</a>.</p>
<p>Yes indeed, my hearing impaired patients wanted a miracle I couldn&#8217;t provide, only improvement, it&#8217;s hard managing people&#8217;s expectations especially when they are paying quite a lot of money to get help. NHS patients don&#8217;t expect miracles of course, but also don&#8217;t like the results, so no, they were rarely thrilled. My boss however, manages her clients beautifully and they are all thrilled with what she sells them, so the other part of it is that I wasn&#8217;t very good at it!! I&#8217;m great at wax removal ? let me know if you want any more photos ??</p>
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		By: lolabees		</title>
		<link>https://www.lolabeescareercoaching.com/a-confession-why-helping-others-seemed-like-a-load-of-bull/#comment-4456</link>

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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Jun 2017 20:32:20 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.lolabeescareercoaching.com/a-confession-why-helping-others-seemed-like-a-load-of-bull/#comment-4452&quot;&gt;David Brenner&lt;/a&gt;.

Thank you, kind sir! ;)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.lolabeescareercoaching.com/a-confession-why-helping-others-seemed-like-a-load-of-bull/#comment-4452">David Brenner</a>.</p>
<p>Thank you, kind sir! 😉</p>
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		By: lolabees		</title>
		<link>https://www.lolabeescareercoaching.com/a-confession-why-helping-others-seemed-like-a-load-of-bull/#comment-4455</link>

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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Jun 2017 20:31:49 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.lolabeescareercoaching.com/a-confession-why-helping-others-seemed-like-a-load-of-bull/#comment-4451&quot;&gt;Heather Meyers&lt;/a&gt;.

That&#039;s so true, Heather!  I hadn&#039;t thought about that, but we do end up feeling like we aren&#039;t enough, so we push harder.  That never really seems to help, does it?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.lolabeescareercoaching.com/a-confession-why-helping-others-seemed-like-a-load-of-bull/#comment-4451">Heather Meyers</a>.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s so true, Heather!  I hadn&#8217;t thought about that, but we do end up feeling like we aren&#8217;t enough, so we push harder.  That never really seems to help, does it?</p>
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		By: lolabees		</title>
		<link>https://www.lolabeescareercoaching.com/a-confession-why-helping-others-seemed-like-a-load-of-bull/#comment-4454</link>

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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Jun 2017 20:30:38 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.lolabeescareercoaching.com/a-confession-why-helping-others-seemed-like-a-load-of-bull/#comment-4450&quot;&gt;fragglerocking&lt;/a&gt;.

Fraggs, I&#039;m so glad you&#039;re enjoying the new role much better.  Do you think part of our own enjoyment of our work has to do with how positive or negative the experiences are for our clients and ourselves?  I bet your hearing impaired patients were a little less thrilled with your work than the wax removals??  So when we are dealing with heavier things for people, it can take a bigger toll on our own well being.

By the way, my husband had to have some wax removed last year.  His hearing was totally impaired by this piece of wax, and having it removed was an amazing feeling.  I promptly received a text with a photo of it!  It was shocking!!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.lolabeescareercoaching.com/a-confession-why-helping-others-seemed-like-a-load-of-bull/#comment-4450">fragglerocking</a>.</p>
<p>Fraggs, I&#8217;m so glad you&#8217;re enjoying the new role much better.  Do you think part of our own enjoyment of our work has to do with how positive or negative the experiences are for our clients and ourselves?  I bet your hearing impaired patients were a little less thrilled with your work than the wax removals??  So when we are dealing with heavier things for people, it can take a bigger toll on our own well being.</p>
<p>By the way, my husband had to have some wax removed last year.  His hearing was totally impaired by this piece of wax, and having it removed was an amazing feeling.  I promptly received a text with a photo of it!  It was shocking!!</p>
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		By: lolabees		</title>
		<link>https://www.lolabeescareercoaching.com/a-confession-why-helping-others-seemed-like-a-load-of-bull/#comment-4453</link>

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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Jun 2017 20:26:48 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.lolabeescareercoaching.com/a-confession-why-helping-others-seemed-like-a-load-of-bull/#comment-4449&quot;&gt;Donna Ray RDH LMSW&lt;/a&gt;.

I think it&#039;s pretty natural to get sick of it sometimes because it can take so much of our own energy.  I know you got into dentistry to help people, and clearly it&#039;s the same with social work too.  Just another reminder to take care of ourselves too.  Great to hear from you, Donna!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.lolabeescareercoaching.com/a-confession-why-helping-others-seemed-like-a-load-of-bull/#comment-4449">Donna Ray RDH LMSW</a>.</p>
<p>I think it&#8217;s pretty natural to get sick of it sometimes because it can take so much of our own energy.  I know you got into dentistry to help people, and clearly it&#8217;s the same with social work too.  Just another reminder to take care of ourselves too.  Great to hear from you, Donna!</p>
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		By: David Brenner		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Jun 2017 12:17:29 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Very insightful way to frame this issue.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very insightful way to frame this issue.</p>
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		By: Heather Meyers		</title>
		<link>https://www.lolabeescareercoaching.com/a-confession-why-helping-others-seemed-like-a-load-of-bull/#comment-4451</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Heather Meyers]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Jun 2017 16:04:35 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thank you, Laura, for this insight! I had never thought of it this way before and figured when I felt this way it meant that I needed to do MORE to counteract the way I felt. I was exhausted and fed up all the time!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you, Laura, for this insight! I had never thought of it this way before and figured when I felt this way it meant that I needed to do MORE to counteract the way I felt. I was exhausted and fed up all the time!</p>
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		By: fragglerocking		</title>
		<link>https://www.lolabeescareercoaching.com/a-confession-why-helping-others-seemed-like-a-load-of-bull/#comment-4450</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[fragglerocking]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jun 2017 06:13:04 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I get it, when I was doing selling hearing aids there were times I never wanted to see another hearing impaired person in my life!  Now in my job doing wax removal I&#039;m helping 16-18 people a week hear better every week and it&#039;s great! ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I get it, when I was doing selling hearing aids there were times I never wanted to see another hearing impaired person in my life!  Now in my job doing wax removal I&#8217;m helping 16-18 people a week hear better every week and it&#8217;s great! </p>
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		By: Donna Ray RDH LMSW		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Donna Ray RDH LMSW]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jun 2017 00:55:16 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[As a social worker I get sick of helping sometimes..I do enjoy the therapy side and the teaching side though]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As a social worker I get sick of helping sometimes..I do enjoy the therapy side and the teaching side though</p>
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